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Engagement Day

Engagement Party Announcement

Engagement Party Announcement Etiquette
It’s a good idea for the happy couple to advise their parents of the engagement as soon as possible. Keeping this information to themselves, or only telling one set of parents can lead to hurt or angry feelings. Proper engagement party announcement etiquette usually requires the parents of the bride be told the news first, with the groom’s parents following soon after. If this arrangement causes one set of parents to feel slighted, the bride and groom-to-be can always tell both sets of parents together over a nice dinner. Never keep the news from parents, as this will only start things off on the wrong foot. Close family and friends can follow soon after. Again, it’s not a good idea to keep this news from those close to you for too long or hurt feelings can ensue.
Once those close to the happy couple are aware of the engagement, it’s time for the rest of the world to know. This announcement can be made by placing a wedding announcement in the local newspaper’s society page. In most cases, the parents of the bride and groom announce the engagement together, but it’s more common nowadays for the happy couple themselves to do the announcing. Also listed in the announcement is information on where the bride and groom went to school, where they are employed, where they currently reside and information on the bride and groom’s parents’ residence. If a wedding date has been set, this information will also be announced to the public.
Now is also the correct time for the parents of the bride and groom to call each other to offer congratulations. There’s no hard and fast rule as to which set of parents should do the calling, but one couple should take it upon themselves to do so.
Article Source: http://weddings.lovetoknow.com/wiki/Wedding_Engagement_Etiquette#Announcing_the_Engagement
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